Don't agree to terms with the intention of winning your ex back.
This can not be stated enough. All to often the left behinds agree to their spouse's terms thinking that if they are nice and give them what they want then they will come back. However, the opposite is so true. The walkaways can become quite vindictive and will use anything/everything to get what they think they want/need. Be prepared and don't cave.
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For some reason Walkaways get super nice and consider marriage counseling right before court dates
Truth
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
