The POINT is that do not do ANYTHING to invoke a reaction from W. Once done these actions can not be revoked. As you said, there are some success stories, but I assure you, there are even more stories of this blowing up in your face.
I believe that there comes a time, when you are just done, done with this $hit and then you say, OK, let's rock. But you are just a couple of months into it and have waaaaaaaays to go. Getting D'd will not lessen you pain...
I am 7 months post D-Day. 5 months separated (she moved into her own apartment.)
Obviously I cannot speak for you, but when I was 6 months post BD reality hit me hardest. I could not sleep, I could not eat, I lost 20 pounds and I had all sorts of crazy thoughts. I tried to date, but it turned out I was not even remotely ready. I worked out, I hiked, I laughed and I cried and I got through. I would imagine you are feeling pretty much same. What I'm trying to convey, it is normal if you are feeling all of this or pretty much anything. It is IMO one of the hardest experiences one can go through...
