I understand the urge to do something. But be aware there isn't a magic bullet to find here. Being on multiple forums can be a bit confusing but if you are on this one, we are going to advice within the DB framework.
In my situation I never regretted doing nothing WRT XH. And yes I am D'd, but there we are. Situations don't normally resolve quickly and is they do it may not be a good thing. Your W could choose to return while still in a WW mindset with you not strong enough to deal with what comes with that.
I found strength in doing nothing and it has helped me let others live their lives more and stop trying to control things - a big benefit! Plough your energy into doing things for yourself just now. Make a plan to something nice this week or next independent of her, okay?? X
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
