Thank you for finding them and posting 2016. It was great being able to read the perspective of a WH. He admitted to treating his wife pretty poorly and seemed to have some remorse, and I'm guessing that is where he earns some sympathy points. Many similarities between him and my ex. And many of the exes, I am sure. It Would be nice if our exes were remorseful as well.
He made a conscious choice of treating his wife really badly. She might have hurt him, but it sounds like it was out of being distracted by the children. Or just being unaware. Her hurt wasn't intentionally cruel. He knowingly and admittedly set out to hurt the mother of his children.
And we all know that when you hurt the mother of children, you are hurting the children as well.
just because he regrets, does not mean that the very CONSCIOUS and very cruel and traumatizing actions were not there.
