I read some of these posts and just thought..."what that poor left behind wife with the 4 kids must have went through in her marriage. she is really lucky to be rid of him"
He really villified the mother of his 4 children who tried to change and compromise for her family didn't he?
Personally, I think any man over the age of 14 that criticizes a females weight and appearance has something wrong with him. But a man that criticizes the mother of his 4 children for gaining 30 lbs and calls her ugly and an embarrassment is a man I and every other woman with half of a brain should stay far away from.