Love is a decision - my story

[Seeker7]

Well the W called me today after a week of NC. I have not initiated any calls with her for 3 weeks. She had a couple of questions for me and I answers them to the point but did not go into detail. She talked a little about the kids and some of what is going on with regular life. Then I told her that I had to go and we said by and hung up.

Boy that was hard to do. I just wanted to keep her on the phone and talk. This was the first time since she left that I initiated the hang up. It also felt sorta good afterwards by taking charge of the sitch. I really hopes this helps more then it harms. Because one thing that she had a problem with me was me not giving her enough attention. But on the same hand now she is not the W I knew ether. Other people have stated that too. Some of our mutual friends have lost respect for her because of how she is acting.

Well I will just have to be patient to see how this turns out. Also now that I have pretty much detached I am able to me a lot more cheery on phone and around other people. Life is getting better for me even though my circumstance is the same.