The POINT is that do not do ANYTHING to invoke a reaction from W. Once done these actions can not be revoked. As you said, there are some success stories, but I assure you, there are even more stories of this blowing up in your face.
I believe that there comes a time, when you are just done, done with this $hit and then you say, OK, let's rock. But you are just a couple of months into it and have waaaaaaaays to go. Getting D'd will not lessen you pain...
I am 7 months post D-Day. 5 months separated (she moved into her own apartment.)
