NYGal, I'm so sorry you're still dealing with this. Are you going to bring it up in counseling?

It seems like your W is still in a fog. It doesn't sound like she really has taken in how much she's hurt you. Also, she may be afraid of your anger?

((((((NYGal))))))

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17