I have this incessant feeling of need to take some kind of action relatively soon. I understand this would not be advisable so that's why I am venting about it. I feel like I have waited long enough for W to come to her senses. It really makes me angry that she has pretty much moved on to another relationship while I sit idly by waiting to see if she comes back (in regards to a relationship,not GAL). I feel like it's time to apply pressure.
Why do you feel you arent taking action? Letting her to live her life without your pursuit IS an action. ts a conscious choice you are making and it is the best thing for your relationship with her.
I think it's your point of view. You are expressing that you feel like you are 'idle'. But you are actively choosing to not pursue or pressure her. That IS action...and it's probably the best one you could do.
