Jeep74 I agree with you. I do not rely just on books for advice. In the beginning I thought that if I read books it would teach me what I needed to fix my M. But as time progressed and the more I read and talked to other people I realized this journey was not about trying to fix my marriage. Because fixing my M it meant that I had to fix my W too. Over time it became only about me fixing myself and continuing to grow mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. It was about me UNDERSTANING
Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.
Me:43 W:41 M:21 SS:25 S:19 D:18 BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16 W moves out 10/2/16
