part of me wants to talk to women but then I starting thinking would I be doing it for the right reasons? I don't want to put myself in the wrong situation or another path with the wrong woman.
It took me a while before I wanted to talk to anyone, and I'm still not anywhere near a relationship-level mindset. There is a difference between the two. I say get out and do it - there is absolutely nothing wrong with going out with someone else and you'll find it would do wonders for your confidence. And, there is nothing wrong with some strange, either.
All to often, people get stuck on their exes and in the moping phase and fail to see a date - or even coffee - as part of the healing. However, some will argue you need time, and to an extent that is correct. But its also like riding a horse, if you fall off and don't get back on soon you may never do it again.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.