Hi roist. Like Michelle, I too believe your boys will be better served by living with both of their parents. Did you ever look into the assertiveness training we discussed a while back?
Better to bring up any issues you have with W at the time of the incident, not the next day, I learned. But there is a productive and many non-productive manners in which to do this. Training will help you get it right.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl