Thank you for coming back to help others. A real live success story really boosts the moral of those fighting in the trenches.

I imagine that it cannot be easy to read the stories here and relive what you went through. I am glad you are at a place where you can do that. You are right about Cadet, sandi and many many others.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together