Things seem better for now. I don't let her push my buttons, I am just kind, keep doing the chores I have in the house, hanging out with friends more, talking more with her and working with her on the rental properties, and with the taxes and her real estate business. I won't bring up any R talk and if she does, I try and change the subject. She is becoming a little more affectionate to me as well, but I'm guarded and I am not overly affectionate with her. She has taken up a couple of classes and asked if I wanted to join. I said I will go with her to check it out, but I actually want to take a different class, martial arts. So I'll keep everybody informed.