I'm 47 H 50. Married for 20 years. Three Ds 19,18,15. The separation was caused by us just not getting along. A lot of arguing, different parenting styles, a lot of unfair fighting. Years of verbal disrespect, (never physical). The things I did wrong was not appreciating the provider he was, not respecting the father he was, and not listening to what he really wanted from me.
We separated once before for about 6 months and got back together. However, we didn't fix our issues and along with the same issues came my insecurities of him dating while we were separated. We were back together for 2 years before separating again.
He has his issues too, but after reading DR and posts here I know there is nothing I can do about that. I just have to focus on me.
We have contact almost everyday, usually about family or finances. He is dating someone right now. He still shows interest in me also.
M-49 H-52 D-21 D-20 D-17 Married 20 years Separated - Since 01/2014
