I agree it a big deal to them after they start acting it out and that's what send them into limbo. But from what I read it is the stage that sends them into limbo where they are wanting to leave. There are several stages of limbo though and most of us are in the third stage.

It is a lot more complex then that and there is a whole book about it. This is just the very short version of it.


Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.

Me:43 W:41
M:21
SS:25 S:19 D:18
BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16
W moves out 10/2/16