Hi there, I would leave it a good while and either reply - I'm sorry you feel that way & hope your day improved....or just don't reply.
For me (I'm a bit of a recovering nice girl) I always struggled with the non-reply - I could just never do it!!! Isn't that rude? I would think - as though having an A and running off with OW wasn't rude...
Also, in my sitch I found myself on the receiving end of XH telling me how OW wasn't very nice to him and was cold sometimes when he had travelled all that way to see her. I didn't manage to deal with that during the convo when it happened - but next time we spoke I told him I was his wife and not his friend, and I couldn't be a listening ear to his complaints about OW. He took that on board for sure.
Who knows - things may be somewhat rocky with OM this weekend. But I tell you, XH and OW split up and got back together 4 or 5 times to my knowledge, so don't set much store by it.
I hope you do genuinely have some nice plans today. If not - do get yourself out of the house, switch off your phone for a bit and enjoy some me time.
Xx
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
