Gordie: Pulling it all together

[Gordie]

Funny but true comment from the W: you are really bad about initiating R talks! Ha ha ha, if she only knew.

The bad news is we're finalizing our separation agreement and I'll be moving into an apartment in the coming weeks.

The good news is that W brought up the POM last night and said she isn't ready to engage in a serious R with him yet. She says she needs to focus on herself and her business and financial independence.

This is the first time we have discussed POM since I decided not to discuss him two months ago. It took all of my self will to just listen and not ask why or what happened or start taking a victory lap around the house.

I know, believe none of what they say, but I'm thrilled.