Unfortunately Bond, that's the sad reality of things. Very few ever get turned around. Very few. In reality - and I'm sure that most would agree - is that the underlying theme of this board is helping them become stronger and better people and helping them get through this god-awful stuff. It's about helping them get back on their feet. Do a poll as to how many just do reconcile and make it. It's not about that, it's about them becoming what they can be - and if their marriages work out, then that's great, but the important thing to remember is that they are able to stand on their feet and not rely on someone who stabbed them in the back. It's about showing them that they can make it on their own.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
