My wife has been very, very attentive lately, though still staying well away from sex. She's been cooking great meals every day, being careful to make contact in the mornings, and sitting close to me on the couch when we watch a movie - yesterday she lay down against me for most of an entire movie.
OK, I'd like sex, but it sure is nice when it feels like we're close to each other and caring for each other and we just happen to have this one problem that we really need to work on. It's so easy for that problem to spread into everything else...