Life is kicking my butt

[qt4x11]

I’m still on your first thread but just some observations. I am stuck that you’re freaked out by your sitch and Zeus126 - you of all people - are acting like your typical newbie to this board:

-full of guilt, blaming the divorce entirely on yourself, still in love w your W
-brainwashed into her narrative of it’s some disfunction or addiction on your part that caused the entirety of the D
-she is not to blame for anything - ‘she’s a saint’ in your words. This is BS. You’re not perfect, but noone is entirely to blame. And let’s remember, she took VOWS. This was til death do us part, not til ‘she gets tired and not wanting to work things out, and decides to fleece you for CS money’.
-other people in the thread just as shellshocked from their own sitch, ‘thanking’ each other, spouting off DB platitudes like 180, GAL, etc. Pop culture psychology, ugh.
-Everyone acting like spiritual gurus all of a sudden, as if that will bring their X back. I wonder how many people continue this spiritual path after realizing it’s not going to change anything. They should be close to nirvana by now.