W texted me today ... My response was I don't mind, and not quite sure yet what I'm doing today. ... I assume this was a bit better?
That sounds fine to me. It's OK to be positive & warm; just be brief and non-clingy/inquisitive. For example:
WW: got anything fun planned today? You: Nothing definite ye. Beautiful day out. Have a great day.
Originally Posted By: Laowai
I want to just confront her and tell her there are consequences for her actions
I don't think they recommend you issue ultimatums or threats. For example, "if you do X, I'm going to do Y." It sounds to me like what you're wanting to do is a threat.
I think the prevailing advice is to just do what you have to do to protect your boundary. And you can let them know if you want.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
