So she's been passionately kissing you while there is some other guy in the mix too? Huge red flag..I think you are seeing in her what you would like to see.

You have come a long way but are still recently divorced and maybe feeling a bit raw. I would pull way back and focus on you as you've wisely said..

Good luck with everything 😊

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus