I have been so accomodating up to this point. I didn't argue about anything she wanted from the house, I have paid for car taxes, insurance, cell phone bill for the 4 months we've been separated. I didn't make it a formal/legal separation at her request.
Maybe you should make it a formal/legal separation at this point? What do you want? What is best for you? What take you closer to your goal?
Can you explain why you say that I maybe should make it formal/legal? I don't disagree, I just am curious what your thought process is on it. My goal at this point is still to see if my marriage can be saved. If I push for the legal/formal separation, I am not sure if it puts me closer or takes me further away from this goal honestly. What is best for me though is an amicable formal/legal financial separation (this is really just an assumption honestly). So I suppose it is a Catch 22
