Westo - you are indeed. In my own journey one of the things that I did that helped me a huge amount was to "reclaim" spaces. Places that had fond memories and places where my STBX would carry on her affair. This is my home and community and by facing those places and people I grew stronger and less afraid.
I'm looking forward to hearing how the tattoo turns out.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells