Gordie: Pulling it all together

[Gordie]

Thanks and sorry to hear that happened to you. I know that cake eating is a distinct possibility. In fact, she says that's what she wants--both of us! She's not hiding that. Has anyone else faced this? I've had one R discussion of not wanting to be in a three way relationship but we haven't spoken of it in months since I decided speaking of POM was not doing any good.