010207--Thanks for the encouragement. I'm trying to enjoy the improvement in our relationship and live in the present but it's really hard not to think about the pending separation and divorce.
ForGump--Thanks. I wish I could fix some of the typos and mixed up gender pronouns but it was a good thought exercise to see where I've been, the commonality in my twists and turns, and a reminder of the DB/DR steps.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving