Thanks Cadet. I am currently reading DR. At BD I asked her what it is she wanted she wanted to do about marriage(MC,divorce. We went to 2 couples sessions and she stopped going. Says she don't think she wants a divorce yet. Says we both have to work on ourselves. Whenever I have brought up anything about the progress about the M or starting to work on R all I got from her is "I don't know". I have not brought up the R in a few months now. Like a lot of others on the boards I am having some trouble detaching and moving forward(although it is getting a little easier as time goes on). Also trying not to hold resentments as I move forward and GAL.
Me47 W45 D19(In heaven) S23 D21 Grandson19mth. BD 7/16 W moved out 10/16. D21 and grandson live with me.