I'm new and certainly no expert Gordie. But to me this sounds positive. I say keep doing what you're doing. Everyone says this is a long road. Sounds like you're on the right track.
Sounds like she's teetering on the fence. I think the fact that you're having sex and she's initiating it is huge. Sex for most women is emotional. I think if she was really done, she wouldn't be doing that.
I hope I'm right! Lots of luck
M:41 H:43 T:26yrs M:19 yrs S:15 D1:14 D2:9 Living together but separated