Wow! Just had an awesome phone coaching session. Lots of takeaways but the one that struck me the most was the old adage of "It's not a sprint it's a marathon." Basically I understand what that means but I never realized that it also applies to giving yourself a break. My coach used the example, "If you train every single day for a marathon, you'll never be able to run one. You have to give your body a chance to rest and recharge."

Such good advice! I have been obsessed with this sitch for so long now. Reading books, reading this board, posting on this board, every single day. I really do need a break!

There's a lot more, but I'm going to give myself a break from this board for now!


M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14