I'm sorry for what you're going through. My H has everything all planned out in his mind how things will go down so I don't think he even plans on having this conversation with me. But the minor things we do discuss are devastating.
D is like a death. Even knowing it's coming is so painful, mentally and emotionally draining. I hope you can take some time for yourself and find at least a moment of happiness in your day.
M:41 H:43 T:26yrs M:19 yrs S:15 D1:14 D2:9 Living together but separated