Working on a Trial Separation Agreement with MLC H

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Hi CC, well the first thing is he will be unable to sell the house without your permission if it was jointly bought and is in both your names. So, there is no need for you to move if that is not what you wish to do.

My XH wanted to sell the house and not really deal with anything else. I had moved out and it suited me to sell. However my L advised that it was our only asset in joint names and we had many further assets in his name only. Therefore it was important that I only agree to sell as part of an overall financial settlement.

I suggested that to XH and hoped we could agree separation arrangements, including finances and selling the house. However, he would only do this as part of a divorce and he ended up filing.

The main thing is - every situation is different. See a L ASAP and clearly understand your rights and any options. Let them know you want to stay in your home and you don't want to D. Then follow the advice given. You won't regret protecting your own interests and those of your family I promise you. Please don't be browbeaten by his wishes.

Take care xx