MLC W and preparing for S or D in the new year

[Seeker7]

I have to agree with Zues126. I found myself always trying to read into everything my W says. There were signs of hope and then other days there were signs of everything is done. I was just talking to someone in my support group last night about this. I see hope in things from her but it can be me just wanting to see what I want to see. So he suggested for me to take all those things that I see hope in and store them on a shelf in the back of my brain and just let them sit out of sight. Over time stuff will accumulate and vanish but what the most important thing is to continue to detach and work on yourself.

As I am continuing to detach more and more it has been able to give me a better view of what is going on and I am able to see more and more on a clear head. I can make better decisions on what I need to do for myself. Which at the moment is exactly what I need because now it is about me becoming the best version of myself. Trust me I know it is not an easy thing to be able to detach but it is a necessary one to be able to focus more on yourself. Just remember that becoming the best version of yourself will help create a person that she would be a fool to leave.