WW confused about the future.

[Gordie]

Excile101, I feel your pain. Your W wanting to go to church after D was finalized so you could all pray for strength...I could see my W asking me to do that. You are fortunate to see your kids as much as you desire...I'm hoping for the same.

***There is no sign that she would want a reconciliation right now and I am not sure what the process should be and if I should be initiating this. It's hard for me to move on without knowing if this would be a possibility. We have been living apart for a year now so I am used to my own company and the new routine. Be great to know for sure as this would certainly help me change my mind set..but I'm no mind reader so I am stuck in limbo.***

If you read the book and the threads on here, and you desire to reconcile, you need to commit for the long haul. The D was just finalized, there are no signs of wanting to reconcile, why do you think you are in limbo? As everyone here says, let go...detach...GAL...what are your GAL activities besides throwing yourself into your work?