I mean, at this point does she really expect for me to continue paying car insurance, car taxes, cell phone? Why does she expect this? Just because "we moved here to further my career"? I am not the one that decided to have an affair, I am not the one that decided to separate to continue said affair. I had faults in marriage and am dilligently working on correcting those for myself and my future partner (whether its my W or someone else), but I DIDN'T HAVE AN AFFAIR!!!!! I have been so accomodating up to this point. I didn't argue about anything she wanted from the house, I have paid for car taxes, insurance, cell phone bill for the 4 months we've been separated. I didn't make it a formal/legal separation at her request. I'm just not sure what else she expects me to do at this point. I am not angry at her that I have paid these things in the past as I chose to pay them, I just want to know what more she wants from me. I am angry at her for the affair obviously....to which she will never admit to but that is another topic all together...
It doesn't matter what she expects you to do at this point. You do what you feel is right for you.