That's very true, Cadet. One of my favorite sayings as a teenager, but putting it into practice hurts.
Somebody mentioned earlier the possibility of codependency. Finally read up on that and I'd say that is definitely me. Now to find a way to break that mold
M:41 H:43 T:26yrs M:19 yrs S:15 D1:14 D2:9 Living together but separated