Yes, I agree you are engaging FAR too much in that convo above.
The best thing to say would have been 'I'm sorry you feel that way' or 'no, just busy today' - work on your pleasant 4/5 word responses and stick to business (car) with the odd validation..
Agreed - Look at that conversation again - do you see that you are contributing ~2/3 of the words? For every line she offers, you are texting 2 back.
And honestly, WHO CARES if she thinks you sound cold? SHES SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER MAN - why would embrace that with being jolly? You dont need to justify or defend yourself to her.
