. He wants a divorce not because I'm not a good person or even that we don't get along, but simply because I don't fit the perfect person in his mind.
That sounds sooooooo familiar.
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I told him, I just can not afford this. I took out loans to pay off credit cards and things around the house from my 401k. It literally takes 1/2 my paycheck. So I told him, you have to pay half of that and I know you don't have that.
Same here. Because of her being in the military, I was only able to keep a job no more than 2-3 years. So, each time I had to start practically at the bottom. Now, I'm supposed to pay for the house, medical, and all other bills plus feed the kids and all. And she's upset that I'm getting some of her retirement.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
