Originally Posted By: PacLove

One thing to bare in mind is that feelings are neither right or wrong - we are entitled to our own feelings as is our spouse. No one can change the way we feel, we can however empathize with the way our S feels and try to understand why they feel that way.


I can not agree with you more on this. This is something I am truly starting to understand as my journey through these times progress.


Originally Posted By: ForGump

Seriously: it's against forum rules to post names of book authors?


I am not sure but have seen many books on here be posted by name and see a lot of abbreviation for books and last names of authors. I did read a whole thread that had lists of books on here somewhere. Also from what I understand it is the main books that are of limits are any doing with competition to MWD's books. I am not sure though but would love some clarification on this.


Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.

Me:43 W:41
M:21
SS:25 S:19 D:18
BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16
W moves out 10/2/16