Love is a decision - my story

[Seeker7]

I think that the people that are here, have a better chance of saving their marriage, then the people that are not here. There are millions of people around the world going through the same thing that we all are, but they do not have all of the insight that we are privileged to get here.

Thank you Matrix, that is why I am here and have learned a lot form the DR book and the experience of the people on the board. I agree with you on these comments.

"I found that hope and detachment didn't go together well at all. Retaining any real hope, almost by definition, makes detaching very hard, if not impossible. "

That's not true. It is very possible to separate hope and detachment. You weren't applying the correct mindset.

Thank you MrBond, I totally agree with you. The mind is a powerful thing and people barely have scratch the surface of what it can do on personal level. That is why it is important to always keep learning and improving yourself because we will never know everything.