That whole exchange should not have taken place. You should not have initiated it, and it does you no good at all. You sound clingy and needy.
The only exchange that should have taken place is: W: How much do I owe you for <some car related expense>? H: I paid $NNN for XYZ, so about half of that. No rush. W: Thanks. H: No prob. Good night.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
