Go back and read your last post. That's why she's still resentful against you. You cheated on her TWICE, you were married for 17 years and only decided to change 4 years ago which means that for 13 years, she had to put up with alot of your BS.
Just because you had a "WTF" moment, doesn't mean that she has to also at the same time. It coms down to control. The majority of your marriage was under YOUR control. You decided to act the way you did irregardless of whether or not it hurt others and having an affair is the ULTIMATE form of control.
Your wife went through guilt through both thinking there was something wrong with her. Now she feels empowered and finally in control of her own life as opposed to you pulling the strings. Is there really any wonder why she wants to get away?
You have to be sympathetic and understanding and show true remorse in a way that she accepts. Acting happy and GAL is what you did before while you had your A. That's why she's angry.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
