Once you let go of the idea that you are going to stop your divorce, then staying on this board - for some people - becomes a matter of using the divorce to spur personal growth, and supporting others through the experience. It's your choice whether to remain on this board once divorce becomes clearly inevitable.
I've actually chosen to continue to post on here, as seldom as I do, to document this time for myself.
Just know that there are no secrets. The DB book only works for 2% of people, those whose spouse is very close to reconsidering anyway.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
