Working on a Trial Separation Agreement with MLC H

[SBJ]

CC, I'm sorry you are having a time of it. I am only a few months ahead of you on this MLC journey, but please know that if you just take it one day at a time, it does get easier to handle. Once you realize that this isn't about you, it becomes easier to detach. It has been easier for me to detach, but just recently.

Also, I noticed you posted something on another thread about him wanting to be friends...I think that is part of the script. They try to convince you that being friends is all you have ever been, and that way it takes the guilt away from them. Mine has said it, and several others have mentioned the friend-zone to me on here. It is a ploy. At some point they have to realize that you will be their spouse (and closest friend in the world), but you won't just be their friend.

Job is right on the support group, but my church doesn't have one...so part of my GAL activity is to create one. It is going well so far. I will keep everyone posted.