I think there's a pretty significant difference of opinion here in terms of the DB Coaching perspective -- which tends to advocate friendly interactions as a way to (re)build connection -- and prevailing board advice, which is much more "tough love" for lack of a better phrase. The former would say that the "friend zone", while not a desired permanent destination, can be a valuable rest stop; whereas the latter seems to say avoid any time there whatsoever.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)