A stronger me for whatever the future holds

[Seeker7]

I was listing to a seminar on marriage today and they were talking about feelings and how you should present them. I know this is probably to soon in your R descriptions but if things progress it would be useful.

He said that when you are talking about something that is bothering you about what the S does you should say it like this. "(Pet name) When you xxx it makes me feel xxx."

Example:

"Sweaty, when you raise your voice I feel threatened and unloved."

Also when you what something done you should say "May I make a request?" If they say yes then you say "Can we do xxx."

For example:

Me - "Sweaty, may I make a request?"
Her - "Yes"
Me - "Can we schedule our next meeting so we are getting good time together?"

You but the ball in there court for helping on the decision.