This doesnt sound like 'going dark' at all. Were you just not pursuing or actively trying to be in LRT? In my mind, you allowing this continued behavior undermines yourself. Why are you being present enough to allow this kind of physical contact?
I might have used the wrong words when I said "going dark" we are very close and our daily routines are together. Going truly dark is almost impossible for me at this time. Also, we are not actively fighting, we get along fine. To be more specific, I stopped all pursuit of any kind and spent my free time on my own. I minimized all conversation and just answered politely when she wanted to talk. Just that small pull back got an instant reaction from her. It was unexpected and not even what I was thinking about.
