At the beginning of this week I went dark as much as possible. I thought it would be good for me to try to let go 100% on the run up to exposing W affair. I didn't expect anything to happen I was just doing it for me.
Originally Posted By: Lex23
By the second day she was rubbing me and being extra friendly. currently she seems to be trying to find out what is going on with me without actually asking questions or admitting that she cares.
This doesnt sound like 'going dark' at all. Were you just not pursuing or actively trying to be in LRT? In my mind, you allowing this continued behavior undermines yourself. Why are you being present enough to allow this kind of physical contact?
