If she wants to divorce me I will make it clear that I don't want that and I will leave the door open for her to change her mind as long as I can. She will have to do all the divorce work but I won't block her.
I wouldnt say the part in blue.
My point was more that a confrontation is a one-shot deal. And you arent going to know how she will react to it. So be prepared for anything and try to keep your cool.
As I said, you should have a long term plan for what you want for you. And your words and actions during this discussion should align with that.
