I have also had an issue that really only started about a week ago with comparing myself to OM. I know there is nothing to gain from this, but it still happens. He has a much higher paying job, much nicer house, nicer car, in better shape....so it's hard to think how I can "be the man only a fool would leave" when he has much more to offer in those regards.
So what are your goals? Lets get off of focusing on W and OM.
What do you want? Who do you want to be? What are your steps to get there?
